Just last night, I flew back from Madrid, after spending a few days traveling around with my parents, whom I hadn’t seen in six months. It was so, so, so wonderful to see them, most especially because we had a lot of long discussions about what has happened in my life in the past year. Seeing as I dropped a huge bomb on them on their summer vacation last August and then proceeded to move immediately into their house, stop eating food, refuse to leave my room for five months, and then move across the world, it was high time we had stable, sane, normal-people conversations about What Happened. After nearly a year of thinking they resented me, and being convinced that they didn’t understand what had inspired all the change, I am finally confident that they get it. And that they support me. And that they are happy that I am happy.

It is such a weight off, I can’t even describe. As I moved through the stages of grief and crazy last fall, I was incredibly lucky with my friends, who were nothing if not absolute saints, pushing me through the worst time of my life with margaritas and root beer floats. At the same time, I was distant from my parents, because they were reeling and I was in no place to articulate my feelings to them in a way they’d understand. I stopped speaking to them almost entirely, only beginning to talk to my mom more frequently on Facebook after I moved to England. (I guess we both benefited from the physical distance.)

Knowing now that everyone has stabilized is priceless.

In addition, I ate a ton of paella, drank liters of sangria, and got to see tons of history, so the trip was a win-win.


Churros with hot chocolate dipping sauce. (Sadly, these churros were not rolled in cinnamon sugar.)


Roman aqueduct in Segovia. One of the coolest things I’ve ever seen.


Aqueduct again.


View of Segovia from the small cafe where I ate a late afternoon snack of fries and green tea, because I’m disgusting.


The view from our hotel. Doesn’t get any more European than this.


One thought on “Spain!

  1. Spain is amazing! Have you ever been to Barcelona? It’s a massive big city but as gorgeous as your above pictures. I want to live there!


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